Truth Be Told!

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July 23rd, 2009 Neha Bhatt

I must confess, I rather enjoy watching Sach Ka Saamna – the same show that has now been issued with a show cause notice from the government — whenever I happen to catch it. I’m surprised that I’m drawn to it given the circumstances; for television shows have rarely held my interest (Not including reruns of you-know-what…and more recently, The Moment of Truth, the American show on which Sach Ka Saamna is based). I was quite keen to see how the Indian version would be received by the audience. I had assumed, before the show was launched in India, that it would tread the middle path, being carefullly much less explicit in its pattern of questioning than The Moment of Truth. I couldn’t have been more wrong. It’s gone full-throttle. And judging from TRPs and general buzz around it, the show is a winner — and why not? As viewers, it titillates the voyeristic streak in all of us. And as participants, there perhaps lies hidden relief in not having to put up with pretenses, more so to dare yourself to speak what you will. 

It’s a show of many firsts. For the first time, we are letting to rest our hypocritical ways, declaring Indian society no less promiscuous than any other. For the first time, we admit we are prone to feelings of jealousy, hatred, and resentment towards people we love. For the first time, we announce that there is, after all, a very thin line between what could be known and accepted, and what must be buried and forgotten. For the first time, for many participants, it’s a chance to reveal to their families that this is who they really are – take it or leave it. For the first time, we, the audience is (hopefully), if gradually, are warming up to the fact that perhaps not judging somebody for the way they choose to lead their lives is the best way forward. Live and let live. After all, you can’t be hawing and haaoing at every participant’s past every single show. You get past it. Everybody has their set of truths. Some say it, some don’t. You watch them faced with a troublesome question and sometimes, you can’t help but ask yourself, “What would I reply to that one?” You’re relieved you don’t have to. Then again, would you really mind?

As for the ones who choose to take the hotseat, I refuse to believe they would have plucked up the courage to let “skeletons” tumble out of the closet only for money. For one, there isn’t a 100% guarantee that the polygraph test they conduct before the show will match your answers on the show. So there is always a good chance that you would return home empty-handed, having revealed significant details of your life. It’s safe to assume then, I suppose, that if you didn’t really want to be there for the sake of coming clean, apart from the money – you wouldn’t risk very many relationships and reputation. Either way, it’s refreshing to see those who have appeared on the show till date saying it like it probably is. That’s a far cry from what we do quite by habit, brushing everything under the carpet. (Even if the show is rigged, the participants paid to “reveal shocking truths” to grab eyeballs, well, then, they seem to have readily agreed to accept those truths as their own).

Our MPs, however, taking the high moral ground as always (with zero basis, of course), have much to say in this matter. While it’s not in the least surprising, it is, nevertheless, exasperating, that they should find it necessary waste their time raising a hue and cry in Parliament about the “dirty” content presented on the show. An MP has supposedly called questions such as “Would you have physical contact with another person?”, asked to a married woman, “obscene”. It’s worth putting him on Sach Ka Saamna. In fact, it’s certainly worth putting the entire lot on the show. If only to shut them up. 

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4 Responses to “Truth Be Told!”

  1. Ashwin Says:

    Truth is only good if it is good for society and people.Some truth are good if they remain hidden only.

  2. Vishal jain Says:

    i really enjoy the show and after looking the show i realized its too Dairing to face the people from ur family ur relatives and ur surroundings.. the person who goes through this process he/she knows that he /she is right or wrong.. but even.. if anybody is replying in a posative way for his/her worng experiences.. he/she have done in the past.. i think even then he is somwhere a good person.. doesn matter he has done faults in the past.. but even only few ppl have the dare to face the truth in front of the camera in front of ur lovers.. ur family nd ur friends.. i dont think that Government should Ban this serial.. its up to ppls wish whoever wana see it can see Nobody force to anyone to watch only this show while there are so many other serials /movie on many channels at the same time..

    One more thing… it may happen that it hearts to the ppl of the family when they know about the person who is on HOt Seat that he/she has passed from so many bad experiences in the life which is never accepted in the civilized society.. but even then.. atleast it brings out the person’s orignal image .
    and i can assure.. Nobody from the politics field can go through by this show.. bcz almost all are corrupted..

  3. Neha Bhatt Says:

    I agree with you deep that people are not as individualistic here and the presence of a close knit joint family is healthy to some extent but its not a question of aping the west blindly. in reality, we are far more delusional about our lives in India, and it is not inbuilt in us to accept if something is not working out, to move on and pursue what makes us happy. instead, we pretend that everything is hunky dory, and stick to something not because we really want to, but because our so-called culture doesn’t allow us. in effect, we end up doing or desiring great many things that we are not willing to admit to, and we are made to feel ashamed for it. This is not about the west, this is about human instinct, to which the Indian society puts too many restrictions. there are many couples who absolutely detest the inteference of their in laws or relatives in their lives. So all im trying to say is that while you could cherish your own family or relatives, you musnt judge others who want to live life on their own terms, however ‘uncultured’ or ‘western’ that might seem to you.

  4. deep Says:

    That show is really horrible. Shows like this and excessive pursuit of “liberalism” have resulted in the breaking up of the institution of family in the US. India is much better than the US, and shows like this will only take our society closer to theirs. It is a typical case of Indians aping the West, and not learning the good things about them!

    Regarding “true self”, it’s true that a marriage involves compromises. the 2 partners have to put up with each others’ idiosyncrasies. But, that doesn’t mean that u break it up just because the tea wasn’t hot when it was served!

    India isn’t USA because ppl r not as individualistic, and there is a healthy shadow of in-laws and relatives. And it’s worth preserving!!!

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